Know when to move on

Know when to move on

It’s always hard sometimes to know when to move on

Sometimes you remain stuck in the relationship all alone

Hoping that maybe, he will come around

Hoping maybe he will recall how close the two of you were.

You keep convincing yourself of how busy he is. Forgetting that even while you were dating, he was still doing the same job

Yet he would find a second to reply to texts

A second to reply a call

A second to think of you

A second to know how you are faring on;

How you slept, how you woke up.

He would always know the slightest change in you

Even if you wear new lipsticks he would know 

 

But what about now, he barely says hi, unless its reply text

He barely calls you, let alone return calls

He barely seems to want you anymore

He barely looks at you twice in the face

Fact, and this is a fact,

He is out of love,

It was just a fling, coz maybe it barely lasted a month

He was probably in low moods, and you were there to put a smile on his face.

But now, he doesn’t need you anymore, maybe wait for the next time he feels low? Maybe? I don’t think you should, though

Okay let me tell you what’s going to happen if you don’t,

You will lose your dignity and self-respect as well as his

You are being too available to him- sometimes this scares away, men

I understand you may be in love by now-but that’s the problem, you are vulnerable and appear desperate.

Stop texting and calling

Let him text and call if he misses you for real

Stop making yourself too available-though this is quiet tempting always

Divert your thinking, focus on other serious things that add value to your life

like how you can save more, business ideas

apply jobs, smile, socialize and make new friends.

Move on, be happy, be independent!